This is a library ‘fantasy’ list. If you were to walk into our lovely little library – and we would LOVE you to do just that! – and commend yourself into our hands, this is what would we would send you home with. We know these books are of genuine use to those caring for people with dementia, please have a browse of the list and let us know if there are any you would like to borrow. Many are also likely to be offered through your local public library service as well.
First person accounts
First-person accounts from people with dementia are a really valuable insight into the experience of those living with dementia. Can they be heart-wrenching to read? Oh yes. Is it ridiculously brave to document your own experience of living with dementia whilst living with dementia? Unarguably so. Is it illuminating to understand, from a first-person perspective, the very personal and life-changing impacts? My goodness, gracious yes! Whenever I read first-person works I am the richer for it. It allows you to experience the world from another perspective, and as a result understand in a unique way what it might be like for someone with dementia and how I might be able to better help them.
Now, enough from me! Here’s a bit about the books.
Alzheimer’s from the inside out, Richard Taylor
Receiving a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease profoundly alters lives and creates endless uncertainty about the future. How does a person cope with such a life-changing discovery? What are the hopes and fears of someone living with this disease? How does he want to be treated? How does he feel as the disease alters his brain, his relationships, and ultimately himself? Taylor provides illuminating responses to these and many other questions in this collection of provocative essays. Diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease at age 61, the former psychologist courageously shares an account of his slow transformation and deterioration and the growing division between his world and the world of others.
With poignant clarity, candor, and even occasional humor, more than 80 brief essays address difficult issues faced by those with Alzheimer’s disease, including the loss of independence and personhood unwanted personality shifts communication difficulties changes in relationships with loved ones and friends the declining ability to perform familiar tasks. Individuals with early-stage Alzheimer’s disease will take comfort in the voice of a fellow traveler experiencing similar challenges, frustrations, and triumphs. Family and professional caregivers will be enlightened by Taylor’s revealing words, gaining a better understanding of an unfathomable world and how best to care for someone living in it.
Richard Taylor has Younger Onset Dementia.
Who will I be when I die? Christine Boden
For many, Alzheimer’s is a mystery disease affecting old people. Christine Boden was 46 when she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and Who Will I Be When I Die?, is the story of her emotional, physical and spiritual journey in the three years since then.
Christine is living with the stages of Alzheimer’s and provides a unique insight into how it feels to be gradually losing ability to undertake tasks most of us take for granted. Her story is remarkable because of the vigor with which she is undertaking this latest battle in her life and the purpose and meaning she derives from her Christian spirituality. Christine’s approach to health and well-being makes this book a must for Alzheimer’s sufferers and their families.
For Christine, Alzheimer’s disease with all the changes it brings, is part of her on-going journey.
Christine Boden has Younger Onset Dementia.
For many of us, the care of family is taxing enough, without even considering the all-consuming demands of caring for a person with dementia. Particularly if that person also happens to be a much-loved parent or partner. Carers accounts offer us the opportunity to plunge into the astounding physical and emotional demands of looking out for a person with dementia. These are not always easy and/or comfortable reads but their raw honesty and often unflinching assessment of their successes and failures makes for very compelling and wonderfully human stories.
Here’s a few of our favourites:
Alzheimer’s: a love story, Vivienne Ulman
When Vivienne Ulman’s youngest child left home, she and her husband were poised to enjoy their freedom. Then her mother’s Alzheimer’s intervened. In Alzheimer’s: a love story, Vivienne records with tender lyricism and searing honesty the progress of her mother’s Alzheimer’s, her own grief over the gradual loss of her beloved mother, and the way in which her parents’ enduring love for each other sustains them. Into this she weaves an account of her family’s history, in particular her father’s rise from farm boy to confidant of prime ministers – achievements made possible by the loving strength of the woman by his side. In a reversal of roles, he now amply returns this support. This inspiring Australian story is a tale for the sandwich generation, squeezed on one side by concerns for their children and on the other by anxiety about their parents. It is about illness, grief, and hardship, but it is also about love, determination, and joy.
Hazel’s Journey, Sue Pieters-Hawke
In November 2003, Hazel Hawke revealed that she was facing her greatest challenge – Alzheimer’s disease. Her courage and determination in the face of this cruel turn of fate touched millions. Now comes the full, inside story of Hazel’s journey with Alzheimer’s, told by her daughter Sue.
This is an intensely moving and personal story of an intelligent, independent woman struggling with the disease that is affecting an ever increasing number of Australians. From early denial to the awful anger that came after diagnosis and the acceptance that has developed since, Hazel’s Journey tell’s Hazel’s story – and shows what life is like for the hundreds of thousands of carers who are committed to helping their loved ones retain quality of life and to coping with the disease’s implacable progress. Inspiring, revealing and insightful, this is a journey you will never forget.
Losing Clive to younger onset dementia : One family’s story, Helen Beaumont
Clive Beaumont was diagnosed with Younger Onset Dementia at age 45, when his children were aged just 3 and 4. He had become less and less able to do his job properly and had been made redundant from the Army the year before.
Clive’s wife, Helen, tells of how she and the rest of the family made it through the next six years until Clive died: the challenge of continually adapting to his progressive deterioration; having to address the legal implications of the illness; applying for benefit payments; finding nursing homes; and juggling her responsibilities as a wife, a mother and an employee. She also describes the successful founding and development of The Clive Project, a registered charity set up by Helen and others in a bid to establish support services for people with Younger Onset Dementia.
Younger Onset Dementia is comparatively rare, but not that rare. This story is for the family and friends of people with the condition, for the people themselves, and for the professionals working with them.
Guides to caring
Imagine if there was a way to have 24-7 access to a source of information and advice on caring for someone with dementia? These could be it, we know they have been very useful on a practical level for many of our library patrons.
The 36-hour day, Nancy Mace and Peter Rabins
The 36-hour day is the definitive guide for people caring for someone with dementia. The new and updated edition of this best-selling book features thoroughly revised information on the causes of dementia, managing the early stages of dementia, the prevention of dementia, and finding appropriate living arrangements for the person who has dementia when home care is no longer an option.
Understanding difficult behaviors, Anne Robinson
The detailed information on environmental, physical, and emotional influences is very beneficial to both family and professional caregivers striving to make improvements that may avoid difficult behaviors. Practical coping strategies for responding to challenging situations such as agitation, wandering, incontinence and resistance to care are also offered. These practical strategies for making changes based on possible causes and guidance to problem-solve helps to avoid the behavior and address it when it occurs.
Activities for people with dementia
These books include intergenerational programming, group activities, ideas especially for men, and sensory stimulation exercises. Also, range-of-motion and self-care activities for enhancing restorative nursing and rehabilitation are described.
Activity must meet our need for meaning and connection, as well as providing an outlet for creativity, spirituality, job, fun, and relaxation. Every one of us has leisure and recreation preferences. This collection of activities respects that diversity, as well as the need for a person-centred approach to activities.